Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Eventful Weekend

Well Hello there.
Much has happened since my last post. 
I guess I will go chronologically, since that seems like the most logical way to do it. 
So, here we go.

I had mentioned in my last post that we were going to Wal-mart at midnight for my $9 tupperware, and that was the only Black Friday shopping that we were going to do.
Well, I was half right. 
We got to Wal-mart at midnight, and there was literally no place to park. Jamie dropped me off, and I ran though the store, under the caution tape, through the clothes department, and grabbed the tupperware.
Then, I went back the same way (yes, back under the caution tape) and got in line.
I was way excited.
This is me in line at midnight. You can see a glimpse of the madness behind me.
Well, while I was waiting in line, Jamie noticed a Blu-ray player. For only $70. But...not until 5 AM.
I said "Yeah Right." 
He said "No, we can wake back up and come."
I said "Sure babe, I'll come with you."

Now, let me clarify that I only said "sure" because Jamie is the worst person that I have ever met about getting up for things. Sometimes I literally have to drag him out of bed for important things, like work and school. So, in saying yes, I did so with the knowledge that when his alarm went off at 4:30 AM, he would just shut it off and go back to sleep. 
Problem solved.

So I'm sure you can imagine my shock and horror when the lights flipped on at 4:30 AM, and he hopped out of bed, and said "Come on!"
So, unable to go back on my word, I got up, and we drove to Wal-mart and bought a Blu-ray player.
It sucked.
Then we went home, back to bed, and both got up for work at 9 AM. 
Gross.

That Friday evening, though, after a gruesomely long day of work, my mom took me to Keystone mall, and to Teavana, and bought me a new really cute tea tin, 2 oz. of Ayurvedic Chai White Tea (thanks, Misty,) and 2 teacups for my birthday! She's so sweet.
Afterwards, we went to Beni Hana, and we had a glorious, amazing, delicious dinner.
It was nice to spend time with her.

And then Saturday morning, Jamie was sick.
Again.
He stayed in bed all day, nauseous, and had to miss Thanksgiving with my mom's side of the family, which is his favorite
So, he was bummed about that, and so was I.
But, my mom made me an amazing coconut birthday cake, because it's my favorite!
It was so delicious!

And then on Sunday morning, I let Jamie sleep, because he hadn't been feeling well.
And then when he got up, and was feeling better, we decided to be productive and go Christmas Shopping!
So, we started at Mass Ave, then went to Keystone Mall, then to Michigan Rd, and then back to 3 places in Brownsburg!
We shopped ALL day.
It was exhausting.
But, at the end of the day, it was really exciting, because we got all but 3 presents!
That's amazing for two huge procrastinators.  I was proud of us.
But then we got home, and realized that since we haven't done our christmas decorating yet, there was no where to put the presents. 
Oops.
So, here is where they are for now. 
Poor Jamie has had to significantly reduce his homework space.
We should be fixing this sometime this week, though.
And, we got Minnie a cute new Christmas Sweater, and Emma a Kitty Condo. 
They are both so cute!

But, then the day turned bad.
Really bad.
I started having really bad heartburn. I don't ever have heartburn, but I just assumed that's what it had to be.  I had an intense, burning pain from my stomach, behind my sternum, to about my collarbones. I just decided to try and sleep it off, and hope it was better in the morning.
Then, at 3:30 AM Monday morning, I woke up in serious pain. It hurt so bad behind my sternum that it was hard for me to breathe, especially deep breaths or yawns, and my shoulders hurt, and BOTH my arms were tingly and numb all the way down to my fingers.
I was concerned, but I've never been one to just rush to the hospital for every little thing.
So, I called a 24-hour immediate care hotline, and described my symptoms to a nurse.
And she told me to go to the ER.

So, Jamie drove me to to ER, and we got there about 4 AM Monday.
I was concerned about my heart, but they did an EKG, and ruled that it definitely wasn't that.
Which was a relief.
They also did a Chest X-ray, took blood twice (and missed once,) and did an ultrasound of my internal organs.
It was a rough 5 hours.
Finally, around 9:30 AM, the nurse comes in and tells me that it was a severe acid reflux episode, and that they are prescribing me Prilosec.
But, they still couldn't tell me why my arms went numb.
Which is weird.
But, I guess I should just be thankful that nothing major was wrong, and they've given me a clean bill of health, other than acid reflux.
It just sucks that we had to spend 5 hours in the ER to do that.

I will say that I am so very overwhelmed by my husbands love for me.
He spent 5 hours laying across 2 wooden chairs in a 4 foot wide space to be with me.
Even though it totally de-railed his Monday.
I am so appreciative of that.

So, finally after all of that, this week has gotten back to normal.
and by normal, I mean crazy busy.
I have two major homework assignments due within a week of each other.
And by major, I mean can decide by themselves whether I pass or fail this semester.
So, I am going to focus in on that for a while.
Just saying.
I will be glad when school is over, and I don't have to be a lonely, homework driven, hermit.
Seriously.

Thursday, November 25, 2010

"You're just to good to be true..."

I had an awesome birthday at Howl at the Moon last night!
Guess who got called on stage and serenaded for her birthday?
Yup. This girl.  
It was awesome. I requested "Can't take my eyes off of you" by Frankie Valli, and wrote on the request that it was my birthday.
He said "This is too good of a song to not sing to someone. Julie, come on up!"
It was seriously cool.

Today was Thanksgiving, and it was actually really good.
We went to Jamie's aunt and uncle's in Rockville, and then back to my grandparent's in Jamestown.
Despite the crazy running around (and the fact that I was not feeling so great for the first half of the day), it all went really well
It was the first holiday that I have really enjoyed in a while.
And now Jamie and I are hanging out and watching Avatar for the first time. 
At midnight, I am going to Walmart, because they have a 40-piece set of rubbermaid tupperware for $9.
Woah.
I have to have it.
But, that's the only real Black Friday shopping that I am doing.
Oh yeah, except that after work tomorrow, my mom is taking me to Teavana for my birthday.
Excited!

Oh, and I forgot to mention yesterday what Jamie gave me for my present.
I have been sponsoring a little girl named Rosa through Compassion International since I was 16.  
She is a (now) 10 year old girl, who lives with her grandmother in poverty in Equador. Her parents were never married, and her grandmother is only employed seasonally.
I can honestly say that it is one of the most rewarding things I have ever done.
Compassion is a Christian program,  that not only gives good food, medical care, and education to over 1 million children in 26 countries, but it also gives them Christian teaching, Bible education, and teaches them to love God.  One of the coolest things about compassion is that you get to send and receive letters from your child, and they tell you about their lives, and ask about yours.  You can send pictures, stickers, coloring pages, and anything that will fit into a flat envelope. 
Rosa often sends me letters telling me that she is really trying in school. I love that, because I know that even though she may not be the best student, because of me, she is trying, and has opportunities to succeed.

Well, for my birthday, Jamie agreed that we could take on a second child.  I have been wanting it for a while, but the finances just weren't there. But, now that I am working more, we are able to do it. So, yesterday, I chose a little boy named Emmanuel.
He is 3, and lives in an AIDS affected area of Kenya.  He lives with his mother and one sibling, and his father is deceased.  I am not sure if it is because of AIDS or war, but I am so excited to give him a chance to learn about God, and provide solid meals, medical care, and an education to him.  I felt that his name was so very fitting, because it is God that has given me the ability to help him.
I am so happy to be his sponsor, and I am so excited to get his packet of information, and be able to send him a letter and pictures.

I have to say, it's been a really great couple of days.
I will leave you with a link to Compassion, in case you want to check it out.

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Happy Birthday to me!!

I enjoy this video. It makes me smile

I've had a good couple of days.
Yesterday was the last day for us to be in the classroom at ABE.
These are some of the cards that the students gave me at the end.
They are so awesome!
They really make me smile
and remind me why I am killing myself to get this degree.

I'm just taking it easy today.
Jamie and I spent the morning together, laying in bed until 10:30,
and then he took me shopping!
It was really fun!
I got a new gorgeous winter coat, 
and some boots, which I desperately needed,
because all I have are my flats, and my feet have been freezing.

He's at work now, so I am just hanging out, taking it easy, which believe me, is a gift for me.
Tonight, my friend Emily and I are going to Olive Garden (YUM) and then she won a party at Howl, so we are going there tonight, and then Jamie is meeting us out!
I'm excited.

And tomorrow is Thanksgiving, which will be nice as well.  
And my mom is making me a coconut cream pie for my birthday on Thanksgiving!!
Best present ever, because Jamie doesn't like coconut,
and I love it, 
so I never get it.

Well, i am going back to my relaxing, 
so I will leave you with my method of waking Jamie up this morning.
It's called the "Minnie Mouse Wake-up call."
And, Emma helped.
Pretty awesome, and effective. =)

Friday, November 19, 2010

I'll be there....

Listening to "I'll be there" by the Jackson 5.
Oh little Michael, what happened to you?
Love this song.

Got up and made Jamie and I pancakes this morning. 
It was so nice, we never get to do stuff like that anymore. 
Then we did homework.
I am really proud of myself, I got a lot done.
Then when he got back from class, I made us lunch.  
Lemon Chicken, 1/2 a baked potato, italian bread, and a spinach and strawberry salad.
It was great.

Oh, here's my dilemma of the day.
How do you tell your mother-in-law that she has the wrong date for your birthday?
I got a happy birthday phone call this morning, and a message saying she had a present for me.
My birthday isn't for another 5 days.
So, how do I tell her that without sounding totally ungrateful? Because I really do appreciate the thought, and that she took the time to call me and everything.
I am considering taking the cowards way out and letting her think that today is my birthday for the rest of my life.

Now that Jamie is at work, I am finishing off my meal with the best dessert in the whole wide world!
Turtle Trails Dairy-free ice cream.
It is unbelievably delicious.
And has a ridiculously small amount of calories compared to regular ice cream.
Yum.

I had a really horrible day at school yesterday.
To make a long story short,
Our classroom teacher vetoed our lesson plan on forensic footprint/shoeprint analysis that I spent 3 hours and $20 creating 10 minutes before we were supposed to teach it, because she typed "footprint analysis" into Google, and it brought up stuff that could possibly lead to evolution.
Seriously.
So, my group and my instructor stood up for me, and said that they thought that was ridiculous, it had nothing to do with that, and I got so frustrated and upset that I started crying.
It really, really sucked.

So, Emily, Amanda and I went out to the Japanese steakhouse in Avon to make ourselves feel better, and then came back to my house and drank wine. 
It was a really great ending to a really horrible day.
So blessed to have those girls in my life.

Have a busy day tomorrow! 
Working 9-3, and then to Matt and Emily's wedding at 4:30!
Super excited that they are getting married tomorrow, I love those two.
They are going to do great things for God together.
Then, Jamie and I are going to The Melting Pot that night, to celebrate my birthday!!
So super excited about that.
The Melting Pot is my absolute favorite.

Well, have to go get ready for work soon, I work 4-11, and then have a meeting at midnight (yuck.)
But, I wanted to mention one more thing:

Today would have been my dad's 50th birthday.
I've been kind of bummed about it all week, but I'm really doing okay today.
Been thinking about all of the good times.
And listening to a lot of Beach Boys. They always make me think about him and smile.
Happy birthday, daddy.
Daddy holding me in my strawberry bikini when I was 1. One of my favorite pictures.
Wish you were here so we could celebrate it.
Miss you.
I love you.

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Does that make me Crazy?

Having a rough week.
Inside of a rough month.
And unfortunately, I know for a fact that it is going to get tougher later this week.
Which is why I am trying to cherish today.
Today has been good.
Really good.
Not stressful, more....Easy.
Almost forgot what that felt like.
To just have one day where it didn't feel like something was crashing down around me.
It's been nice.

So, I have been music browsing to continue my relaxing evening.

I love the song "Crazy" by Gnarles Barkley.
If you're unfamiliar with it, you can hear it HERE.

I also love Ray Lamontagne.
Love. Love. Love.

He is SO soulful, he can touch my heart in an instant.

Well, I found this tonight in my music hopping.
It. Is. Glorious.
Unfortunately, I can't find it to purchase ANYWHERE, so YouTube will have to do for now.
It's such a glorious song, and hearing Ray Lamontagne's gorgeous voice singing it just gives me chills.
Love it.

That reminded me of a really cool cover band that a friend introduced me to at Ball State.
It is by a band called "Me First and the Gimme Gimmes."

I had forgotten just how much I loved this cover until I heard it again.
So, I started clicking on some others by the gimme gimmes.
Turns out, they have 4 CD's, and they are all punk rock covers of famous songs.
They are ALL amazing.

For example....

"I'll be there" by the Jackson 5



and from their county album (yes I said country,)
"Jolene" by Dolly Parton.

These guys are awesome
I have so much respect for their creativity and talents.

Going to try and do some homework, chill out, drink some tea, hang out with my lovely dog, my precious cat, and wait for my amazing and wonderful husband to come home.
Love him.
And I'm so thankful that i have him.

Friday, November 12, 2010

Feeling Blessed and Honored

Yesterday started out really rough.
I was up until 2 AM the night before, doing homework,
And then had to get up at 6 AM.
Needless to say, I was struggling.

Then, when we got to school, our science group teacher told us that,
even though she's known our lesson objectives for the entire semester, 
She decided that a ransom note for COOKIES was inappropriate for her 4th graders.
Really.
That basically shot every plan we had made for the rest of the year, including our big finale.
So, my friend Emily and i, who are in her science group class, were having a really rough day.

And then, my friend Amanda dropped a bomb on us.
She said "I've been sitting on this for a couple of weeks, but I have something I want to talk to you two about."
Emily said "your pregnant." hahahaha
Amanda said "No, haha, but will you guys be bridesmaids in my wedding?"

Stunned silence for two seconds.
And then..."OH MY GOSH!!! YES!!!!"
And then the tears came.
For both of us.
It just completely turned my day around!
It was awesome
It will be a first time experience as a bridesmaid for both of us.
 Emily and I already have all sorts of ideas,
even though Amanda's not getting married until December 30, 2011. 

I'm so excited about all of this.
These girls have seriously become so important in my life.
They get me through the craziness of the blocks.
I don't know what I would do without them.
I am super excited to be a part of Amanda's wedding, 
And equally excited that Emily will be with me in that.
It's going to be an awesome time.
Amanda, Me, and Emily.

Monday, November 8, 2010

Dexter-ific!

Been working a lot.
Weekends are always that way.
I worked 30 hours from Thursday to Sunday.
Craziness.
Don't get me wrong, I love my job.
But, like any other job, there are issues and struggles.
Hoping things get a little easier.

Because of all of my work and school, and his work and school, and just our busy-ness in general,
I haven't seen much of my husband lately.
Trying to find a day to have a date night.
Not looking like it is going to happen very soon.
Maybe for my birthday in a couple of weeks.
I miss him a lot, even though we live in the same house.
It's sad and strange.
It makes me feel lonely, and I wish more than anything we had more time together.
Love him.

We did get to go to my parents for lunch yesterday after church, which was nice.
And I got to see my little brother Dexter,
Who is getting to be a big boy.
I love him. He is going to be the most spoiled dog ever.
 
Hahaha, the poor guy was so tired by the time we left, he could barely keep his eyes open.
He is such an awesome dog.
I love that he is part of my family.

Okay, I am off. 
I am completely and utterly overwhelmed by homework.
I'm doing my best, but it doesn't seem to be good enough.
My reading teacher wants to have a meeting about my paper on Tuesday.
Not. Good.
It's just so hard right now.
I am going to try and get as much done as possible for the week, since I will be super busy.
Doing my best to stay positive.
Uggggh, it's hard.

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

I MUST see this!!!

It looks SO intriguing.
Excited.

Smile with your eyes....

Still sick.
In fact, I am sicker than yesterday.
It sucks so bad.
I woke up this morning for work, and had absolutely no voice above a whisper, raging headache, throat and lungs on fire, and you don't wanna know what was coming out of my coughs and nose.
I had to call into work, which really sucks, because it was a big training day for me.
I felt really bad.

But, I have slept a lot today, drank buckets of tea, hacked up a lung, and am starting to feel a little better. 
(the lung thing was a joke...sort of.)

So,  I thought I would share some of the joys in my life for the last few week or so.

My husband loves halloween, and this year he decided to dress up for the trick-or-treaters.
This was the end result.
hahahahaha, I love that man.
He makes quite the lumberjack.

As I mentioned yesterday, our washer bit the dust.
Considering that it is 20 years old and was a garage sale purchase, 
I am not surprised.
This is what I came home to.
The washer was in the garage, and there was a wet towel and hammer in its place.
Jamie is making his first trip to the laundromat tomorrow morning. 
It's going to be interesting.

I also got some of the pictures back from Holly's yesterday.
We had a lot of fun doing it, we kept making "Tyra" and "Smeyes" references.
We are such dorks.
But here are some of my favorites.
It was fun, and we are already talking about doing it again.

Last but not least, Minnie Mouse has been very sweet while I've been sick.

And by sweet I mean smothering and needy.
This is where she has insisted on staying. All. Day.

But, I don't mind (too much.)
She's a sweetheart.

Well, off to do the 62,794,153 things I have to do for school.

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Oh life, why are you so difficult sometimes?

Much has happened since my last post. 
I'm super tired, so here are the highlights.

Worked a lot.

Had Tim and Misty over on Sunday and had lots of fun.
Looking forward to doing it again soon.
They are very pleasant, and it was so nice to have good company.

And then I got sick.
Really, really sick.
I just went to CVS and got an antibiotic filled, kleenex, cough drops, and vaseline for my poor nose.
Ugggggh. 
I have absolutely no voice.
None at all. 
And of course, I was leading a lesson with my small group for school today.
I pulled it off without any real problems, but  It wasn't pleasant.

Even so, I still went and helped Holly with her photography, and modeled for her.
We basically played ANTM for an hour.
It was awesome.
Can't wait to see the pics.

Oh, and our washer finally bit the dust.
Not really surprised about that one. 

Going to bed now, trying to sleep off this cold. Have to be at work for a movie move at 8 AM.
Dang it.